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Self-Criticism

160 articles exploring self-criticism

What is self-criticism?

Self-criticism patterns examining the inner voice of judgment and learning to transform harsh self-talk into self-compassion.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why am I so hard on myself?

A lot of factors can contribute to self-criticism, like past experiences, societal pressures, and even comparing yourself to others online. Recognizing these triggers can help you understand where your inner critic is coming from and start challenging its negativity.

How can I stop being so self-critical in relationships?

Start by practicing self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend. Also, try to reframe negative thoughts into more balanced and realistic ones. For example, instead of thinking "I always mess things up," try "I made a mistake, but I can learn from it."

Is all self-criticism bad?

Not necessarily! Constructive self-reflection can help you grow and improve. The key is to distinguish between helpful feedback and harsh judgment. If your inner voice is motivating you to be better without tearing you down, it can actually be a positive force.

Articles tagged #self-criticism

Written from lived emotional experiences and long-form reflections.