Esfj

ESFJs value harmony and good vibes, so conflict can really throw them off. They often try to smooth things over and make sure everyone's feeling okay, which can be draining if the conflict is intense or unresolved. Just be patient and understanding!

ESFJs thrive on appreciation, so telling them how much you value their help and support goes a long way. Small gestures, like a thoughtful text or acknowledging their efforts, can make a huge difference. They just want to know they're making a positive impact.

ESFJs often show love by trying to help, so it's coming from a good place! Gently explain that you appreciate their concern, but sometimes you just need to vent and not necessarily have solutions offered. Using 'I' statements, like 'I feel more supported when you just listen,' can help.