#flashmarriage

There are lots of reasons! Sometimes it's intense chemistry, feeling pressured by family, or even a fear of being alone. It's important to check in with yourself and make sure your decisions are based on real connection, not just fleeting feelings or outside pressure.

Skipping the 'getting to know you' phase can lead to some major surprises later on. You might not realize you have different values, goals, or communication styles until you're already deeply invested. This can cause a lot of stress and conflict down the road, which impacts your emotional health.

Trust your gut! If something feels too fast or intense, it probably is. Set healthy boundaries, take your time getting to know someone, and don't be afraid to pump the brakes if you need to. Talking to a therapist or trusted friend can also help you gain perspective and make sure you're making choices that are right for you.